a lil latin love

Posted: October 7, 2011 in lays

Ok, so nightgame did bear me some fruit despite my constant loathing of it as of late.  Last Friday, I went out to a rooftop bar and met a girl that I had actually met at another bar a few weeks ago.   She’s a hot Dominican girl with wild hair.  The first time, she got pulled away by her friends.  Generally, I didn’t think I’d get a second chance so when I saw her, I approached. It went much warmer than the first time since she recognized who she was and I was teasing her about her looking like a particular actress.  Logistically, her sister was with her so I didn’t push for much besides a date. So I got a date settled for Thursday.

No real phone game needed, except solidifying the meeting through text.  She has to go to a company dinner the same night so we end up rescheduling for 10. 

She shows up and we really start chatting away at the first bar I took her to.  I go for the kiss twice and get the cheek.  But every now and then, I would touch other parts of her body after key points in the conversation because she did the same thing.   We walk to a second bar which ended up being perfect.  They were playing a little reggaeton and she liked it.  So we danced a bit, another excuse for me touching her.  I start making bigger physical moves like kissing her neck on the dancefloor as she’s dancing with me.  Finally, we make out after she was still trying to have me kiss her cheek.   It was getting kinda hot and we’re on the couch making out like crazy.  Finally, I suggest that we go some place else and she agrees. 

We get to my house, and she says something like “Why are we here?” and I say that I need to smoke a black & mild.  Whatever.  So we just go into my room and she climbs in my bed.  It was probably 2:30 and we watch some TV a little bit.  But when I made moves, she doesn’t resist at all.  Closed the deal pretty easily.

okcupid is easier that night game

Posted: October 4, 2011 in dates, lays, the game

So I’ve still been going out and doing night game but I’ve been bored by it lately.  It just seems like going through the motions at times.  Various things have happened during the past few weeks to make me consider doing more approaches in the day time and/or only going out at night if it’s a social thing, not to “sarge”.  It’s honestly just making me misogynistic in a way because it’s like you’re looking at women at their best dressed combined with their worst attitudes thanks to a  alcohol and constant male attention.   I had a girl that I tried to approach walk up to me, make out with me, and leave without saying a word.  I had some other girl get all creeped out because I was at the bar alone one Friday night..and that’s after she started kissing my neck and making out with me.  Basically, I’m not excited by it anymore and probably need a few weeks off just to build up some anticipation and excitement for it.   Besides that, I’ve had some problems with the manager at my local spot, a spot I spend a lot of money at.

This 20 second clip summarizes my feelings about going out at night right now.

I started going hard on pof and okcupid 3 weeks ago and I like my results, 2 weeks 2 lays. Here’s a general breakdown

Went out with this tall, blonde, hipsterish girl.  We sent a few messages back and I asked her out pretty soon.  She actually accepts for that same Thursday night.   So we end up meeting at a bar but we leave so I could get a slice of pizza.  We then go to the hookah bar I’ve been taking my dates to.  We sit down, talk for about an hour, and then agree to go to another place.  I do a little bit of hand holding on the way just to see how comfortable she is with me.  We sit down at the other place and I go in for a little peck like 10 minutes in.  She starts touching my neck, touching my crotch, so I know it’s on but I didn’t do too much to kill the sexual tension.  While we were talking about music, she was talking about this group she really liked.  She suggested that we go dance at this place that we both talked about but I wasn’t for it.  I instead suggested that we go listen to her band and she got the innuendo.  So we grab some beers on the way to my place and then we go into my room.  I just load up my Pandora to play her music and she’s pretty relaxed.  I  close about 30 minutes in.

Last week, I went out with this short blonde girl.  I was very straightforward just like the last girl to get her out.  We set up a date for Thursday.  She comes to my area but ends up forgetting her id.  So instead of going to my planned hookah spot, I go get two bottles of wine.  My backup plan was to go to a BYOB hookah place but the owner ends up checking ID’s.  rats.  So instead I just go straight to my house and we chill in my room for about 4 hours or so.  As far as closing that night, it didn’t happen but she told me her weekend schedule was wide open.  So we meet on saturday, go out near her area,  and I slept over at her place and closed.

The first one is not going to be around at all, the second one probably will.  But honestly, the things I have to deal with when I’m out at night (cockblocking, rude staffs) don’t exist in online game so I’m going to keep it up.


 

date & lay with the Humiliatrix

Posted: August 26, 2011 in dates, lays

So Humiliatrix came through, took the train about 40 minutes to see me.  I got nervous that she was totally blowing me off because she texts me “Hey! Are you down because it’s a 40 minute train ride and my roomate made chicken”.  Mind you, I already set the date up on like Sunday night or something.  So I was really getting pissed because I thought she wouldn’t show.  She texts me at 7:30 saying she finished eating and is on her way.  At around 8:45, I get a call from her because she’s lost.  So I walk over and meet her at the train station. 

The first thing I notice is that she’s shorter than what I remembered, fucking heels.  But she’s cute though.  The first thing I guess we talk about is that she thought I was YOUNGER than her (24), and didn’t believe I was 30 at all.  I guess that’s why I’ve started doing nightgame at the younger places and always had a hunch that I’d do well there.  Anyway, we go straight to my house, under the premise of me texting her “I’ve got a suprise!” I sent her a text of a bar near my place earlier, but I just don’t even bother going there. 

She walks in, and I reveal my suprise: vodka and limes.  The night I met her, she wanted to do body shots.  And she texted me another day about them.  So I figured we could do them at my place.  So I make a bowl of sugar and we head into my room.  At first, she wouldn’t even sit down, but she got warmer afterwards.  The first 20-30 minutes was pretty dicey because she knew what was up, but I just kept being sarcastic, cracking jokes, and eventually she relaxed.  We do body shots and she really licks the sugar all over my neck, getting me all worked up.  I return the favor.  I give her a little peck on the lips and I’m getting a little resistance to go further.  She wants to change into some of my pajama pants so I give her a pair and put on my own pair as well.  A few more shots.  All during this time, she’s giving me shit about my musical taste, the date itself, how I just want to fuck her, etc etc.  At some point, I did say, “yea, you wouldn’t be here if I didn’t think you were sexy”.  Anyway, we’re laying on the bed and she’s pushing me to tell her more stuff about me because I do think at that point, she was thinking about having sex with me but just wanted to know who I am.  So I oblige and open up and she opens up in return.  There’s probably another kiss attempt made here, rejection.  We’re laying down, giving each other eye contact, silence. 

We plan on going to a bar because she wanted to go on an ‘adventure’.  Then she wants to talk about spirituality and shit and we argue about that for awhile.  She gets all mad because I don’t agree with her and at this point, I’m getting annoyed.  But we’re still kind of grabbing each other and stuff, I pick her up and kiss her a bit while I take her to the bathroom.  We leave and she gets on the phone for 10 minutes to check her voicemail in the hallway.  Then she forgets her keys and I tell her she’s annoying me.

We finally start walking to the bar and she’s still giving me shit about spirituality and my lack of it.  Whatever.  And as we sit down, she gets all apologetic about it thinking that she somehow wants to impose her views on me.  FINALLY, I found one commonality that we had: we both enjoy “Breaking Bad” so we plan on going back to my place to see it.  She gets all excited.  All of the physicality at this point is from her to me, her legs on my lap, her kissing my neck, her kissing me. 

We’re walking back and I’m rapping the song that was just on in the bar and she starts insulting me about that.  We’re both drunk at this point.  And when you’re drunk, you buy stupid shit.  So we go to the deli near my place and buy a fucking pineapple because she wanted one.  And I wanted a black&mild cigar.  We walk into my place and she starts cutting the pineapple and asks for my help.  Then she starts taking her clothes off right in my living room.  She goes and jumps in my bed and I come in still smoking my black & mild.  She takes a few drags and then she’s just kind of laying there.  I get on top, start talking dirty, grab a condom, and I’m finally in after all of that BS.  She’s actually a pretty decent fuck, I’m going to try and keep this one around.  She leaves the next morning, right when I leave before work.  Thank goodness for alarm clocks, because I wasn’t sure if I was going to be able to make it to work today.

Weekend review part II

Posted: August 26, 2011 in Field Reports

So after I leave humiliatrix, I do a couple of approaches.  I walk downstairs near the bar and spot this young girl wearing a white shirt.  I tell kickbomber I could probably get it and then just go in.  Instantly, she’s all over me, hugging me, etc.  She says that she’s in the peace corp and leaving in March so she’s already talking about future plans.  Her friends are just standing there and end up leaving.  I take her all the way up to the fourth floor hiphop room and we dance a bit.  We go sit down for awhile and I start joking about her making me breakfast.  She accepts it but her friend is texting her shit like “are you ok? I hope he’s nice” and I just make a joke out of it.  So I tell her to text her friend back..forgot what I said but it’s like “Hi, this is 2track, she’s going home with me tonight”.  Her friend texts back “lol, yea right she’s going home with me, meet me by the sofa”. 

A key point happened in that I tried to put in some sexual innuendo and she says something like, “I don’t believe in sex before marriage!” I just start laughing and acting like I was going to walk away.   But we still sit there, and she’s agreeing to make me breakfast but then thoughts about her friend keep coming up.  I just keep pushing the issue and I could see she was really considering it. 

We go back downstairs and go outside so I could find a cigarette to smoke.  Her friends then come outside and I get introduced to the girl I was texting with.  I’m still planting the thought of her leaving, but I was much cooler about it.  I switch gears a bit, trying to convince the whole group to go to another bar and they agree.  kickbomber comes out and at this point, it looks like she’s going to leave with her friends.  But her and the potential cockblocker have a 20 minute conversation.  When it’s over, the friend tells me, “I’m gonna let you spend more time with my friend, take good care of her, alright?” and that was it.  We walk towards my place. 

We get in, I grab two beers and we just sit on my bed for awhile.   Of course I start making moves until some of her clothes are off.  I’ve got my pants off too.  I make a move to my drawer for a condoms and here’s where it gets interesting.

“I’ve never…done anything like this before”

In the back of my head, I was like GTFOH but honestly, she convinced me she was a virgin.  Either that or she’s a really great liar.  And I didn’t care to break her virginity at like 4am Sunday morning.  She’s very apologetic about the whole thing and I just try to put on the act that I didn’t care about it that much..but she could tell I was mad a bit.  Later on, I finger her a bit, she gives me a sloppy handjob, and was going to go down on me but started laughing the minute she put it in her mouth.  I don’t know, I found the whole thing kind of bizzare considering that she left with me at 3am and should know what’s up.   But she’s from that sort of big family and probably isn’t as experienced as most 22 year old girls.     She was telling me that it was the first time she ever left with a guy in a club.  I fall asleep around 6 and I thought she was sleeping too.  She leaves early though, like 6:30.  I think she was a bit embarrased.   She’s still texting me as of this writing but I have no idea if I want to see her again

Weekend review part I

Posted: August 23, 2011 in Field Reports

Went out with Jon on Friday night.  What can I write about? Basically nothing.  I hooked pretty much nothing at all.  I think it was because I went to this really chic bar at first and got blown out plenty.  Maybe I was psyched out the whole night? Who knows.  All I know is that we went to this other place and I can safely say that the women there were more open.  I’ve gotta try the place on a weeknight.  I hooked this one girl from Jersey City, Jon wings and gets a number, I decide it’s not worth it so pass up on my girl. 

Went out with Kickbomber saturday night.  This night went much much better.  I can’t remember the first girl I hooked but at least girls were polite about it. 

Kickbomber is with his girl after he arrives and I end up meeting up with him upstairs.   A memorable moment was that this Scottish girl was kinoing me back as I opened her up really aggressively.  She says it’s her birthday so I say something about a birthday kiss and go for it, denied.  She’s giving me the ‘go back to her friends’ thing, starts to walk away, but then comes in to kiss me.  I denied her.  Something roosh wrote inspired me.  Of course, this wasn’t the scenario he laid out about girls just saying “I gotta get back to my friends”, this had obvious sexual undertones.  But if she can’t stay and talk to me for 3 minutes, forget about it.  Similarly, I did that to most of the short term sets tonight. 

 I bet kickbomber I could go downstairs and bring somebody back up.  So I go downstairs and spot this brunette girl and she opens up really warmly.  Instant kino, small talk.  But she’s asking for a shot like immediately.  A red flag goes off in my head like ‘wtf’ but I change the subject to more rapport stuff.  She asks if I want to go upstairs so I grab her hand and we go up there.  On our way up, she’s telling me why she’s here: she was interviewing for some sort of ‘humiliatrix job’.  And she was getting text messages from some guy telling her to meet her somewhere.  I find it interesting but that’s TWO red flags in the span of five minutes but it’s still some real sexual tension going on between me and her.  She mentions the shot again as we’re upstairs near the bar, specifically bodyshots.  First off, I’m thinking “FUCK” because I don’t know how much shots are at this place.  And at the same time, I was feeling a bit used.  Anyway, as we’re waiting, she’s like

Her: You ever fuck a girl named [hername]

Me: yea

Her: I’ve fucked plenty of guys named [myname]

She’s still insisting on this ‘humiliatrix’ job she’s ‘interviewing’ for.  I think it’s just some guy she wants to meet.  I guide her to the stage with my hand and the guy is telling her to find the bouncer.  She’s standing by the stage for a good 5 minutes and I just say goodbye.  She grabs me and we kiss a little but I watch her dancing later with some other girls who basically look like DJ groupies. 

*Update: tentatively meeting her Thursday, I’m taking her straight to my house.  She mentions via text that we still have to do body shots so I’m just getting a bottle of tequila and some lime and taking it from there. 

to be continued…

This was a night of drunken debauchery.  Everything seemed so easy, no real blowouts just a few short fizzled out conversations between the three girls that hooked below.  I would have helped myself towards the end if I would have paced my drinking a bit.

First girl that opens relatively easy is this brunette girl.  I just tap her, forget what I say, but I look her straight in the eye.  This is one approach where I think eye contact made the difference because it’s like my eyes stopped her from just going right past me.  Maybe that’s why I felt so at ease last night? I don’t know.  The problem was that she was kind of drunk and wanted to dance and wouldn’t talk to me.  Another problem is that she was an absolute dork, dancing and doing mime like moves and the robot.  I asked her name and she kept ignoring me.  But she kept grabbing me too.  I was a bit confused.  I should have escalated harder because she wasn’t giving me anything verbal to work with, just physicality.  I should have gone for my standard necking thing.  She sees her friends dancing and joins them in their circle, and basically just dismisses me.

I head over to the bar area and there’s this latin girl standing next to two friends, a male and a female.  We look at each other and she opens me, looking at me really flirtatious.   We talk for a few.  I find out she’s taking a cross country trip and is stopping in ny.  At one point, she dismisses her friends and says something like “I’m with him” so I buy her a drink after that.  We go out to dance and have a dance-to-nowhere.  She disappears after that.   Again, playing it safe and should have gone for the neck.

I’m standing around and some Asian girl takes ice and puts it down my shirt.  I’m like “You’re just trying to talk to me” and she’s all like “maybe”.  I find out she’s Korean and we just talk and joke around for awhile.  I go for the kiss as we’re standing up and it’s good.  The thing is, at this point, I’m kind of drunk and forgot her name even though at one point she let me see her driver’s license.  She got pissed and I just apologized for it and made out with her some more.  Her name becomes an ongoing joke in addition to some other stuff.  We end up on the couch and she’s making out pretty passionately with me and I’m thinking “SNL, SNL”.  But things started to unravel a bit.  First off, she’s there with like four other girls.  When we were standing up, her friend came by to “check on her” and she told her that she was fine.  When we were on the couch, her friend checked up on her and then either took her bag or the bag she was looking for.  Whatever it was, it kind of killed the vibe from her being in the moment to her being all like “I’ve gotta go”.  She must have said it like 10 times in between kissing me.  She was saying it even while being on top of me kissing me and it’s like WTF.   On the couch, I think I reveal myself a little too much.  Mark Manson talks about vulnerability a lot and I was just telling her that I’m kinda sick of random hookups and I’m looking for a connection.  She actually says something like “I can tell you do this alot” or something of that sort.  Then, for whatever reason, I tell her that my last girlfriend was Japanese.  This kind of kills the vibe additionally for me because I could see how her body language reacted to that, even though I was drunk.   So vulnerability…a good thing but it just has to be used correctly.    We get into some argument about something..fuck I don’t remember.  And she starts slapping me and I’m just laughing at it and telling her to do it again.  Then we start kissing again.  Finally, one of her friends is all like “We’re leaving, are you staying?” and she’s like “No, I’m going”.  It’s like 3am at this point.

I do another set and this girl is being sort of an attention whore when her friends get there and they start dancing on the couches.   Oh well

I’m walking and hear this conversation going on where this girl gets hung up on.  So I neg her a little bit and we walk and laugh about it together.  This girl was like a PUA because everything I asked her, I had to “guess” the answer.  Eventually, she knows a little about me and vice versa and I go for the pull to a bar near my place.  No-go, it’s raining out and she wants to go home.  I get the number but she walks off all quickly so I don’t think I’ll follow up with it

SNL – I get my Irish flag

Posted: July 31, 2011 in lays

Last night, I almost didn’t go out.  My muscles are hella sore from the workout I did on Friday and my lower back, parts of my abs, hamstrings, and quads are still recovering.  I slept a ton and ate and that was it.  But finally at about 10, I text M to see what he’s up to.  He’s in the LES doing street game with some other guys so I decide to join in.

I get there, and we roam around for a good few hours.  I hook in this one blonde girl sitting down and we start talking, I went in indirect and just chatted about bars. She wanted to listen to music on her iphone and I went with it.  So we listen to music for about 10 minutes and then I just give her my phone to punch in after getting to know a few basics about her.  It was a sloppy number close.   The good thing is that M saw the whole thing and critiqued it and said that I gave into her frame instead of going with my own conversational topics.  Point taken.

I approach more black girls than usual because there were some cute ones out.  One was on a date but the other two hooked.

There was nothing else really notable about that few hours of street game for me personally.   I was just mainly out of my comfort zone, even though I should be semi-comfortable with street game since I’ve done it more often.  One of M’s protege’s went into this group where there was one girl and two guys and he put his arm around her.  One of the guys is even looking at him pissed off but he stays in with his arm around her.  He didn’t get anywhere with the girl, but it was just a ballsy approach.

We do a few more approaches, and then I end up going back to my favorite bar.  I go in and order a drink and take a quick survey of the landscape.  There’s two cute girls that are in the corner near me.  I see this old guy with the longest dreads I’ve seen in awhile get blown out by this very cute girl who is with another very cute girl.  I open by just pointing out how her body language said “get away from me” but her friend is more interested and her friend is local (one is visiting from DC, the other lives in Queens).  We then go into this conversation about the whole bar scene and survey the room to talk about who is hooking up and who is not.  I have to break it down that just because they are making out doesn’t mean they are hooking up.  If these two girls saw me last night with the Swiss chick, they would have assumed I was hooking up but I wasn’t.  M comes in to talk to the one visiting from DC.  I tell my girl that I wouldn’t mind seeing her another day.  The conversation pretty much stalls out after that and she leaves.

I go into another set immediately and “save” them from some guy that’s been bothering them all night.  I just tell both of them to start dancing with me so I stick my butt in one girl’s face and then dance with the other.  I honestly don’t remember what we talked about but I number close one of them.  She was the least attractive of the two.

I direct approach this tall brunette a bit later, and we just chat for awhile.  I find out pretty quickly that she’s from Ireland and we talk about accents.  I go for the isolation, asking if she smokes and she says she smokes when she’s drunk.  Perfect.  More small talk outside, telling her a little bit about me.  I go for the peck on the lips at first, it’s good.  After we’re done with our cigarettes, we start making out.  I tell her at first to just come towards my place after she gets rid of her friends and give her my address.  She’s like “OK” but I already know how that’s going to go.  We stayed outside because the bar was closing and her two friends were still in there.   I get introduced to the friends and they want to go eat.  I am like, “I’m hungry too” and go along with them.  Luckily, it ends up being me and the Irish girl walking and her two friends (one male, one female) walking behind us a bit.  We go up near my place and pass it, uh oh.  The one guy is feverishly looking for pizza or anything open and still wants to drink.  So by the time we get near her place, they separate to go look for food.  The Irish girl isn’t really hungry so it’s just me and the Irish girl walking towards her place.  Excellent.

We get there, make out on the elevator because the sexual tension to me was dying off, and get to her room.  She gets me a glass of water.  We eventually just do a ton of foreplay and I pull the condom out from my wallet.  I put it  in, just kind of half-assing it because I was kinda sore and tired at this point (like 5am).  I come and we just talk a bit.  I wake up around noon and walk back to my place.   She’s leaving for Ireland for 5 weeks so I’ll see how this develops.

What was KEY in this scenario..was that I was just very nice and cordial with her two friends and let them fizzle out.  I didn’t even think it was going to go down at one point, especially after we were right on my block looking for an open bar.  And another thing was that I acted as if I was hungry too around the friends, to provide some cover as to why I’m with them.   But I think the guy that was with us helped too, separating the other girl as we were walking.  Another thing is that the Irish girl and the female friend had a quick “girl chat” on the street and I just didn’t pay it any mind and talked to the guy.

wing philosophy taking shape

Posted: July 28, 2011 in the game

Here’s the mentality that I subscribe to totally when it comes to wings, I do it every once in awhile. I mean..especially when you’re out with a guy and you two look totally different in appearance, one guy might be so “in there” and then the other wing comes and the girls aren’t attracted to him at all and it kills the interaction.
I’ve had it happen in situations where I’ve introduced and really hyped up the guy, and even where I’ve tried to get a random “wingman” at the club in the set, thinking he’ll be cool. Girls may even not want to move with you because they fear that their friend will be “stuck” with your friend.

There’s such a small percentage of random girls that will hook and be attracted to the random two guys that just happen to approach them.

http://www.cliffslist.com/letter/give-wings-a-chance

http://krauserpua.com/2011/07/24/the-rat-pack-life-wing-rules-in-set/

Hardly anybody I’ve been out with  follows the common sense rules that Krauser so eloquently stated.

http://www.cliffslist.com/letter/aaron-sleazy-your-wingman-is-nothing-but-trouble

Bottom feeders too, guys who don’t approach whatsoever and who will leech off of your approaches are trouble too.  A ‘normal’ friend of mine (normal meaning someone not acquainted with all of the game literature out there) did that most of the time we were out.

And I’ve been in situations where I was “taking one for the team”…fuck that shit.  I don’t go out and get dressed up to fuck with some fat chick.  No real FRIEND would ask you to hang out with some fat chick while you try and score with the cute one.

The Weekend

Posted: July 27, 2011 in Field Reports

The.Weekend.Sucked.

Did a lot of street approaching with M on Friday night after going to a bar that I was hyped about and being rather disappointed by it.  Later on, Kickbomber joined us.  I actually had a girl get mad at me for doing my “Herd…Hot Nerd” opener to her.  She took off her glasses because she didn’t want to be perceived as that.  Hilarious.  I’ve never had that happen.  Later on, she started insulting me.  I left.

The other notable approach that night was this kinda thick chick at NMP at about 2am.  I was just sitting there with Kickbomber and observing shit.  I was telling him how the one black guy in this large group wasn’t hooking with the thick girl.  I opened her about the situation and she hooks in, instant touching, and the like.  She wanted to dance at first but I didn’t really want to.  I was already sweaty and just wanted to chill so we talked.  I found out she was from NC, and she actually asked “Are you a Christian?” and was complaining about the guys in NYC.  Her ultra entitlement mentality turned me off.  She was in a group with this one Jersey Shore looking dude who was dominating stuff and I found out that they all work at the same law firm.  I saw him making out with the cute one in the group and he would occasionally dance with the thick girl.  I grabbed her and started dancing with her after awhile and she goes back to her group a few times.  I honestly think in retrospect that she was gunning for the Jersey Shore guy but he was already totally locked in with the other girl.  I get her number sometime, I don’t even know why. Later on, while we’re outside, I meet her other co-workers and she’s all freaking out about where Jersey Shore and the girl went.   I thought she was just jealous of the two of them getting together and wanted to break it up.  She cops an attitude with me, I forgot why.  I cop an attitude because I just wasn’t in the mood to deal with a flaky girl who is probably like a 5 on my scale.  She met the minimum threshold for a one night stand, but that’s it.  Eventually it ends, and I just go home.

Saturday, I met up with Jon, a guy I met on the practicalpickup forums.  We go to this bar I’ve never been to.  I hook my first set, this Italian girl and her friend just by going direct on both of them.  Jon joins in a bit later, but his girl leaves after awhile, leaving me and my girl.  The dynamic was pretty crappy, with me standing up and her sitting down at the bar.  And honestly, I was kind of bored.  But after about 20 minutes, I tell her that we’re going downstairs and invite her and she declines.  I ask for a date and she says that she’s “seeing somebody”.  Set to nowhere.

Later on, we meet up with Geo at NMP.  We all are hooking absolutely nothing.  We then go to try our luck at some streetgame in the ludlow area.  Nothing. Nada. Zilch.

One thing about this weekend that I can learn from is that I don’t like going out with more than one wing.  Two wings are just too many agendas going at the same time. And the vibe just totally has to be about fun & women, nothing else.   Also, I think I’m just going to start working on my street gaming the way M does.  Anyway, got an internet date tomorrow provided that I don’t have to work extra hours.

Thursday night with M

Posted: July 22, 2011 in Field Reports

Went out with M kinda late.  I went to the gym and met up with him around 10:30 or so

We go around the Ludlow area and do some street approaches.  Nothing is really hooking for either of us.  I told him, “it’s too fucking hot NOT to go direct, so that’s what I’m doing”.   The one girl I hooked into a 20 minute conversation said something like “I don’t date” or something.

We bounce to a taco place and M talks to this girl sitting by herself.  For me, this was a learning opportunity because I realized he wasn’t doing anything THAT special, just comfort building and asking shit like  “what kind of music do you like?” It’s the little things though, like touching that I saw him do.   His escalation is gradual, and that’s what I’m going to start doing instead of trying to force make outs and stuff.   Being that M and I are both black, and both game white girls, comfort game has to be good.   But context is important too, he doesn’t game in clubs at all.  Nightclubs are generally full of ADD girls, there’s more of an urgency to get physical faster or they are going to quickly leave, especially if there’s a ton of other options for them in the club.  Regardless of that,  I’ve definitely gotta start doing more random approaches on the street or in stores, there’s just so much potential there that I’m not tapping into.

Anyway, he bounces her and I follow along to 2a.  I run out to the ATM to get some money and then talk to the bouncer for a sec.  I see this cute girl smoking a weird cigarette so I bum one off of her and we talk for awhile.  I thought she was alone but her date came outside and we talked about all sorts of random shit for a sec.  I go back in, go upstairs where M and his girl are sitting and order a drink.  About 2 minutes later, he’s bouncing her to his house.

I meet some random guys in the bar and try to get them to go to Lit with me.  They are from out of town but they don’t really follow me.